Reveal yourself, be open, be vulnerable. Now’s the time. Sure it can be scary, but it can also bring you close to others and closer to the truth. There’s stuff you don’t want to look at — maybe nasty stuff — but you’re also fascinated by it. You want to know what went wrong. You want to get to the bottom of things. And if you’re willing to reveal (at least to some extent) who you are, you’ll be infused with new life now.