You may be having a lot of “aha” moments now. Things are falling into place in your head and its all making a lot more sense. Keep smiling, laugh at it all, for even those things that seem like tragedies have their humorous side if you’re willing to lighten up and see how we’ve all made the beds we’re lying in. Yes, that’s it — give up the victim stance, and don’t buy into anyone elses victimhood. Sweetness will help you to swallow anything. Take it all in stride. Be both detached and yet everpresent for what seems to be needed.